Tears

I haven't really shed a lot of tears for my Mom since she died; it wasn't unexpected and, really, she wasn't very well off for several months. So, it was as is often said, 'a blessing'. Sure, I have shed some random silent tears in the past 11 months. Today, however, I realized that the anniversary of her passing is next Thursday, and I have hardly been able to contain my tears all day - in fact, I have literally sobbed several times today.

So... what do people do on these kinds of 'anniversaries'? What do you do with your thoughts on that day... what do you do with your heart... what do you do?